I'll be teaching Accepting Service with Grace at a private service intensive in Atlanta, Georgia.   Class description: In our Western culture that both expects and prizes self-sufficiency, the idea of someone else doing something for us can make us cringe. It carries connotations of, at best, taking advantage of the other person and, at worst, weakness. But accepting help — accepting service — is much more complex than these connotations would have you believe. Within our kink culture, particularly…

I'll be teaching about Art of the Scene with a side of Ichinawa for the group Kennesaw Kinksters. This is a vetted event, so if you'd like to attend, be sure to read the Fetlife post about how to get vetted. This event is now capped and has a waiting list. If you'd like more information, check out the Fetlife event post. Class description: The kink community has grown exponentially over the last decade. New folks, both older and younger,…

At the May WHIMPER munch, I'll be teaching Accepting Service with Grace. Later that evening, at the play party, I'll be doing my Service Dates demo! Munch class description: In our Western culture that both expects and prizes self-sufficiency, the idea of someone else doing something for us can make us cringe. It carries connotations of, at best, taking advantage of the other person and, at worst, weakness. But accepting help — accepting service — is much more complex than…

Come on out to the WHIMPER play party for my Service Dates class! Description: A lot of folks are under the misconception that one must be in a committed relationship to provide service. That’s no more true than the idea that one needs to be in a committed relationship in order to be flogged. A service date is just like a regular play date, except instead of S&M or rope or whatever, the date is about service. This strikes a…

I will be teaching my Service Dates class at a private service intensive event in Atlanta, Georgia.   Description: A lot of folks are under the misconception that one must be in a committed relationship to provide service. That’s no more true than the idea that one needs to be in a committed relationship in order to be flogged. A service date is just like a regular play date, except instead of S&M or rope or whatever, the date is…