FromFet: Control vs. Consent

Originally posted 29 July 2014 So this thread popped up in my feed tonight. (Edited to add, for those not on Fet: this thread was titled Who is *really* in control, and argued, in part, that the bottom in any scene has more control — all the control, really — than…

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FromFet: To Newbie, With Love

Originally posted 14 November 2011 I’ve been told that someone is telling newbies that the kink community is all about butterflies and flowers. So I thought I would give you an idea of what the community is, what it is not, and a few pointers on how to interact. This…

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