Originally posted November 2013 My submission is an aardvark. And by that I mean it has value and I don’t just give it to any Joe Schmoe with a D or an M after his name. He has to earn it! And I get to take it back if I…
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Edited to add all the Buy links as they go live. Amazon: e-book Kobo: e-book Barnes & Noble: e-book (TBA) So, after ten days of waiting for Amazon to get their shit together, I’ve finally gotten Caly’s Game back on the shelf! You might remember from my post about Publishing Update…
This is the fourth post of a small group that all go together. If you haven’t read from the beginning, the first post is You Can’t Say No to the Universe. It will make much more sense if you read it from the beginning. Subsequent posts are linked to their…
I’ll be teaching about Art of the Scene with a side of Ichinawa for the Jackson Instructional group. this is held in a private home, so please contact the event organizers to be vetted. Fetlife event post. Class description: The kink community has grown exponentially over the last decade. New…
This post is the second in a small group of posts that all go together. If you haven’t yet, please read SWLC Post, The First: You Can’t Say No to the Universe. — This writing isn’t going to be a point by point accounting of what happened at Southwest Leather…
Originally posted 29 July 2014 So this thread popped up in my feed tonight. (Edited to add, for those not on Fet: this thread was titled Who is *really* in control, and argued, in part, that the bottom in any scene has more control — all the control, really — than…
I am going to be posting about the current Year of Living Uncomfortably over the next several weeks, so I thought it would be worthwhile to post here about when it started. There are a lot of things referenced here that may not be the reality anymore (such as people…
Originally posted 14 November 2011 I’ve been told that someone is telling newbies that the kink community is all about butterflies and flowers. So I thought I would give you an idea of what the community is, what it is not, and a few pointers on how to interact. This…
I hope everyone’s new year started out nice and kinky! Mine has started out nice, but I haven’t gotten to the kinky bit yet. I will though, don’t you worry! 🙂 I wanted to put a note up about what I’m going to do with this blog. I’m not going…
Welcome back to the website! So, in 2016, while I was taking care of my grandmother, I missed the (multiple) e-mails from my hosting provider warning me that my credit card on file had expired and my hosting wouldn’t be able to auto-renew. When I did realize it, finally, my…